Foods And Recipes For Extremely Picky Eaters (2024)

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I wanted to challenge myself as a mom to find dishes or foods for picky eaters (what did I get myself into!). I can’t say that I was a perfect eater all my life. In fact, I was the pickiest of them all in a family of 5 with 3 siblings.

My mom struggled with me growing up, trying to get me to eat everything, and then it turned into anything that she could think of. I would literally give my lunch away to the cute boys at school or hide them in my school bag for days on end. Yes, I was the worst of the worst, I would say.

Now as a mom, I cannot even imagine the struggles that my mom went through trying to get me to eat. I can definitely relate to any mom struggling with picky eaters as a result.

My boys are not the typical extreme picky eaters, as they do have an appetite. My eldest son will eat what is prepared, but struggles at times with vegetables, while my youngest son just loves exploring all types of food (his dad’s genetics, not mine). However, sometimes they do have their moments and may like only certain foods, fruits, or vegetables.

My sister’s kids on the other hand are a bit pickier with their foods, especially one particular niece who I would consider the extreme of them all. She does not like any dish prepared with a sauce, her eggs have to be perfect with no burns or cheese added, and she refuses to eat anything but chicken. She is my ultimate showdown when it comes to testing my chosen dishes.

These are a few of my favorites that you can try with your picky eaters. I will add more dishes as I explore other options, but for now, try these and let me know what you think.

If you have tried any of these dishes or have a few of your own, let me know. Please feel free to share your own experiences or ask your questions or concerns below. I will be happy to help you!

“Recipes that I have tested on the extremely picky eaters!”

macaroni and cheese

Now you may be wondering why I included macaroni and cheese. That’s every kid’s favorite dish, right? Not so much. Picky eaters are picky eaters and even the famous kid’s mac and cheese have been rejected and thrown in the garbage several times.

This is my insider’s trick to mac and cheese; not all mac and cheese are created equal. My kids and my sister’s kids absolutely hate any box-prepared version of macaroni and cheese. They can identify it very well and will refuse to eat it. I have thrown enough of it in the garbage to get the point. Unless you decide to revamp the box of mac and cheese (throw out the cheese packet), which I have tried and gotten success on, don’t waste your precious time.

I recommend trying a good, from-scratch recipe that they will love. It is so quick and easy to make it from scratch, that it is a no-brainer if you ask me. You will never purchase any box version of mac and cheese ever.

Here is a really easy-to-prepare homemade mac and cheese that your picky eater will definitely love and ask for more.

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Homemade Mac and Cheese – Taste Better from Scratch

In addition to this recipe, I like to add a little black pepper, garlic powder, old bay season, and mustard to add even more flavor to this classic kids’ dish.

Pillsbury Dough Crust

This crust is heaven! If you haven’t tried it as yet, I think you should give it a try with your kid. Anything I can make from this crust is a winner. That includes breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Anything done with this pastry is a big-time winner with every picky eater. Even Pillsbury Doughboy approves it for picky eaters and advertises it on his packaging.

I can make an omelet for my kids using the same ingredients and they don’t eat any of it. I can then use the pastry and wrap the exact same ingredients in the crust and it’s gone in seconds. Thanks, Pillsbury doughboy!

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Breakfast Ideas

Sausage Egg and Cheese Breakfast rollups – Pillsbury

Bacon Egg and Cheese Brunch ring – Pillsbury

Lunch Ideas

Mini Crescent Dogs -Pillsbury

Dinner Ideas

10 Genius Ways to Do Taco Night Right – Pillsbury

Naan Bread

If you haven’t tried this bread yet, I urge you to give it a go! Naan is a leavened, oven-baked flatbread found in the cuisines mainly of Western Asia, India, Indonesia, Myanmar, and the Caribbean. The fascinating thing about this bread is just the simple ingredients used to make it. It is fresh and so easy to use. You can prepare it at home, or like myself purchase it in stores ( I purchase a pack in Costco – Reya naan bread ). I use this bread whenever I can to make quick, tasty, and easy breakfast, lunch, or dinner meals.

For the moms who enjoy cooking and baking, then the bread can be easily made from scratch using the recipe below.

Naan Recipe – Allrecipes.com

With the prepared naan bread, I like to make fresh flatbread pizza. This is where you can get creative based on the ingredients you have on hand. My favorite sauce to add to this bread is a marinara sauce or my hubby’s favorite (chic-fila Polynesian sauce).

I then add anything from leftover baked, grilled, or rotisserie chicken, ham, tuna, pepperoni, etc. I can then add any type of cheese, whether cheddar, mozzarella, or Swiss cheese to the top. I can also add any vegetables that my kids will eat, for example, spinach, corn, tomato, etc. It is a definite winner for picky eaters!

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Naan Pizza Ideas – Brit + Co

Naan Recipe Ideas -Taste of Home

Peanut butter Soup or Stew

This is not your typical chicken soup, I get it. It’s peanut butter you may say! Yes, I am very aware of that, but I must admit that it makes a really good soup base that even the extremely picky eaters will like. I have tried the basic noodle soups with my kids and yes they may like it now and then, but the peanut butter-based ones are gone literally off the plate. I kid you not. My husband is of African descent and they prepare dishes with a peanut base all the time. My favorite dishes from his culture are actually the peanut-flavored ones. My kids are the same. They love it. The sauce itself can actually be eaten with rice or by itself in a soup version. If you’re up for an adventure, then try this recipe and let me know what was your picky eater’s reaction.

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Instant Pot African Peanut Stew -Paint the Kitchen Red

When preparing this dish for kids be careful of the spice level (FYI- leave the spice out of the kid’s dish and add it to the grown-up’s dish).

Skillet Lasagna

Let me introduce you to a quicker and newer version of the good old fashion lasagna because let’s face it as moms we have zero time whatsoever to be slaving all day long in the kitchen trying to make the perfect lasagna from scratch. I found this really cool recipe idea and thought that I would try it on my kids. Can I tell you that it was a success! Skip the traditional lasagna noodles and opt in for the bow-tie pasta instead.

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Skillet Lasagna – The Life Jolie

I substitute the ricotta or Romana cheese from this recipe, for cheddar cheese instead based on the ingredients that I have available at preparation.

Teriyaki Sauce

Teryaki seems to be a popular choice in my opinion for picky eaters. I am not sure if it’s the sweet or tangy flavor of the sauce that kids like, but whenever I prepare anything with teriyaki, whether a stir fry, meatballs, or plain noodles, it’s a hit with my kids.

To prepare the meatballs, I purchase a bag of Aidells Chicken Terikayi from Costco, then make the teriyaki sauce and add them to the meatballs. I then serve the meatballs with plain white rice or spaghetti. If you are short on time, you can opt in for a bottle of teriyaki sauce instead and throw it on your meatballs (my favorite bottle of pre-made teriyaki sauce is Kinders).

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Teriyaki Meatball Stir Fry – Aidells

Sweet and Sour Chicken

Here is a great way to revamp plain old nuggets by adding a sweet and sour sauce that will even win over any extremely picky eater. It is commonly used in East Asia and Southeast Asia and has been used in England since the Middle Ages. The chicken breast or thighs is cut into small pieces and lightly fried, after being coated in a batter first. A sauce is then prepared and added to the nuggets. It is definitely a favorite in my household.

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Sweet and Sour Chicken – Dinner then Dessert

Instant pot chicken alfredo

There is stovetop chicken alfredo, and then there is instant pot chicken alfredo. The instant pot alfredo is by far my favorite way to prepare this dish. It is also a favorite for picky eaters. The difference in the method of cooking is the actual addition of chicken stock to the water when cooking it in the instant pot. It adds so much more flavor to the noodles as it soaks up the chicken stock while being cooked in the instant pot. This dish has been my favorite to make for my extremely picky, no-sauce-eating niece.

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Instant pot chicken alfredo – Damn Delicious

Banana bread muffins

I couldn’t write about recipes without giving you my favorite baked product for picky eaters. This is good old fashion banana bread or muffins. You can make a bread version of this, or muffins, which I prefer for my kids. There is just something about the taste of bananas that is a winner for kids, especially my kids. The great thing about this recipe is that you can use bananas that the kids or hubby don’t want to eat anymore because the skin is spotted. I refuse to waste precious commodities such as bananas and so I make bread or muffins with them. Good trade-off!

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Banana Bread Recipe – Sally’s Baking Addiction

FYI- you can freeze the bananas and have them on rotation until it’s time to prepare this recipe. Just pre-thaw them before use.

Rice Dishes

“Plain rice is just plain boring rice!”, says my kid’s face. As much as it may be ok for grown-ups to like plain white rice, it may not be the same for kids. I like to prepare rice a little bit differently for kids with color and flavor. My kids for example are more drawn to yellow-colored prepared rice dishes I make with saffron than a bowl of plain white rice.

Rice dishes are also great to try with picky eaters. Doing several dishes, for example, my favorite one-pot rice meal with everything included is a winner. Here is a recipe that I have tried with my kids and picky eater nieces and nephews, that they enjoy and ask for more of.

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Jambalaya -Gimme some oven

Jambalaya is a Creole rice dish of West African, French, and Spanish influence, consisting mainly of meat and vegetables mixed with rice.

When preparing this dish for kids be careful of the spice level (FYI- leave the spice out of the kid’s dish and add it to the grown-up’s dish). You can mix it up with their favorite meats, whether chicken, shrimp, sausage, etc.

If you do need additional help with picky eaters, check out my blog post on 10 Tips For Changing Your Picky Eaters Habits and Tips For Battling The Mealtime Blues.

Did you find the strategies listed in this article helpful? What were some of your favorite tips? How have they worked for you? Leave a comment below, I’d love to know what you think.

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Foods And Recipes For Extremely Picky Eaters (2024)

FAQs

How do you feed an extremely picky eater? ›

Approaches to Try
  1. Try eating the food first to show them you like it. ...
  2. Make funny faces with the foods on their plate. ...
  3. Give them a choice of different foods to try. ...
  4. Serve new foods with foods you know they like.
  5. Try freezing small bites of leftover foods. ...
  6. Wait a couple of days before offering the food again.

What do most picky eaters not eat? ›

While every kid is different, commonly refused foods include:
  1. Odorous vegetables. ...
  2. Seafood & Sushi. ...
  3. Condiments. ...
  4. Spicy Foods. ...
  5. Sandwiches.
Nov 4, 2022

What not to do with picky eaters? ›

It's important not to let a child's pickiness become a source of mealtime tension. Don't cook special meals just for a picky eater, but do include something your daughter likes in every meal. Ask her to take at least two bites of what you made, but it's OK if she chooses not to eat more than that.

What is an easy at home lunch for picky eaters? ›

Here is a list of school lunch ideas for picky eaters to try:
  • Ham and cheese roll-ups with a side of apple slices.
  • Greek yogurt with mixed berries and granola.
  • Bagel with cream cheese and sliced cucumbers.
  • Peanut butter and jelly sandwich with a side of baby carrots.
  • Mini quiche with shredded cheese on top.
Apr 13, 2023

What is the one bite rule for picky eaters? ›

You may have heard it called the “one bite rule” or the “one polite bite” or the “no thank you bite” or the “try it bite”. Regardless of what you call it, it's the concept that a child (usually a picky eater) should take at least one bite of every food on their plate.

What is food neophobia? ›

Food neophobia is generally regarded as the reluctance to eat, or the avoidance of, new foods. In contrast, 'picky/fussy' eaters are usually defined as children who consume an inadequate variety of foods through rejection of a substantial amount of foods that are familiar (as well as unfamiliar) to them.

Will a picky eater eventually eat? ›

While some children are picky to the extreme, it is, for many, a developmentally normal phase and one, as pediatricians often say, they eventually will outgrow. Studies indicate that picky eating ranges from 14 to 50 percent in preschool children, and from 7 to 27 percent in older children.

What is the psychology behind picky eaters? ›

Kids are so picky with food for several different reasons. The causes of picky eating can include sensitivity to smells or textures, anxiety, or fear of trying something new.

How do I cook for a picky husband? ›

21 Best Recipes for Picky Eaters
  1. Salisbury Steak. "I absolutely loved this recipe. ...
  2. Chicken Enchiladas. "These enchiladas were AH-MAZING! ...
  3. Crispy Parmesan-Ranch Chicken Breasts. ...
  4. Baked Sweet Potato Fries. ...
  5. Chocolate Chip Cookie Baked Oatmeal. ...
  6. Pepperoni Pizza Casserole. ...
  7. Taco Salad. ...
  8. Chicken & Dumplings.

Are picky eaters born picky? ›

Which begs the question – is picky eating hereditary or habit? It appears it be both. Some estimates claim 78% of picky eating is due to heritable or developmental characteristics – how the taste buds and smell centers of the brain perceive flavour and how a child's taste is designed to mature with time.

What are 3 tips for picky eaters? ›

10 Tips for Parents of Picky Eaters
  • Family style. Share a meal together as a family as often as you can. ...
  • Food fights. If your toddler refuses a meal, avoid fussing over it. ...
  • Break from bribes. ...
  • Try, try again. ...
  • Variety: the spice. ...
  • Make food fun. ...
  • Involve kids in meal planning. ...
  • Tiny chefs.
Apr 26, 2018

What age is the most picky eater? ›

Do remember that picky eating is often “developmentally normal.” Children across the globe go through a picky eating phase from about age 2 to about age 4. “We think it starts out partly as a built-in protective impulse in a child.

What important nutrients would a picky eater miss out on? ›

Important minerals and vitamins for picky eaters (and all kids!):
  • Iron. We need iron to make red blood cells, which helps us maintain a healthy immune system, proper mental function, helps with growth and develeopment, and maintain our energy levels. ...
  • Vitamin D. Vitamin D is needed to maintain healthy bones! ...
  • Calcium.
Sep 19, 2023

How do you plan meals when everyone in your family is a picky eater? ›

Just lay out a few simple rules for those picky eaters: Everyone's plate must include a healthy protein, vegetables and a whole grain (sometimes we'll do a starchy veg instead, like sweet potatoes or corn on the cob). We also serve up classic kid favorites—like chicken tenders and pizza—with a healthy twist.

What are the two types of picky eaters? ›

Parents often give up before then.
  • Four Types of Finicky Eaters.
  • Sensory-dependent eaters reject a food because of its texture or smell (“Yuck, slimy!”).
  • Preferential eaters shun new or mixed foods.
  • General perfectionists have specific needs, such as foods not touching one another.
Jul 1, 2015

How do you feed picky eaters on a budget? ›

Budget meal ideas for a picky eater?
  1. carbs.
  2. broccoli/cauliflower/carrots.
  3. pinto/refried beans.
  4. chicken, beef, pork, salmon, eggs.
  5. cheese (except blue cheese)
  6. dairy free milk.
  7. strawberries, blueberries, grapes, honey dew melons, bananas, watermelons and mangos.
Sep 20, 2023

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